Dear Parent:

Relax. Helping your child succeed in school doesn't have to be a full time job. In fact, studies show that the little things parents do as a normal part of their day can have the greatest impact on their children. These are things that don't deal with a particular skill or subject matter. Instead, they set an uplifting tone and create a positive attitude about school and learning. For example:

* Make it Clear That Education Is Important in Your Home

Whenever your child has a school paper or project he or she is proud of, display it in a prominent place. Talk to your child about school. Participate in parent and family activities at school when possible. In other words, let your child know that while you don't go off to class every day, you still are very much a part of the school family.

* Show That You, Too, Are a Learner

Take family walks or drives just to enjoy exploring new places and meeting new people. When you try something for the first time, let your child know that while you're not sure how it will turn out, you hope to learn from any mistakes you make and expect to do a better job the next time.

And remember that learning doesn't grow in leaps and bounds, but moves very slowly. Show appreciation for even the slightest progress. Praise your child's effort even if gains can't be seen. Your reassurance will be an incentive to keep on trying.

* Look for Moments To Spark Thinking and Imagination

While watching TV, shopping, or taking a family drive, try a few "I wonder" statements. "I wonder why the sponsor used a football player in that commercial." "I wonder why they display these magazines at the checkout counter."

* Be a Model Reader

Instead of waiting until you're alone to enjoy a good book, make reading an activity the family does together. And every once in a while, turn it into a special occasion by reading aloud to your child. Being read to is a treat and motivation for children at all ages.